Learn the exact steps I and hundreds of others are using to communicate difficult subjects in a way that draws people in, instead of pushing them away.
Unlock the secrets of effective communication and transform your interactions!
I'm ReadyWhen you know how to tune into your audience, ask questions and present ideas strategically, you can be confident and effective when controversial topics arise.
Welcome to
Free Your Speech
Free Your Speech (formerly Parrhesia) is the only online communication program designed specifically for contrarians, nonconformists and alternative-minded people who struggle to communicate with people of varying opinions.
In a world where “marginalization” and “discrimination” are allegedly what society’s meant to take up arms against, we are literally the most disenfranchised and misrepresented group of all.
This self-paced 8-week program is designed to help people like you learn tactics and strategies to communicate effectively with people who disagree. I’m going to teach you to tame your fear, use nerves to your advantage and become conscious of your natural gifts, so you can be heard and understood when it matters most.
After self-confidence and courage building exercises, I will give you my conversation framework that will allow you to tune into the demands of a moment and select from an arsenal of communication techniques and tactics to deliver information with both your head and your heart.
Hi,
I'm Benny,
and I’m a freedom fighter who found a path to freedom … without so much fighting.
By developing truly effective communication skills that stand up to the highly polarized times we’re living in, I was able to uphold the agreement that I made to myself early on: I want to know the truth.
Now I teach others to hone their confidence and charisma, use tested techniques and frameworks to navigate difficult conversations and clarify their own thinking through the creative process.
Do you think the most influential people in this world spend time and effort developing their communication skills? Do you think they take time to craft their message, observe how it’s being received and refine their tactics based on the feedback they’re receiving?
Of course they do.
I contend that people with the courage to accept reality as it is need to craft their words consciously as well. I want to embolden you with tools and techniques that will make your communication highly effective.
It will lead to a more exciting, authentic life for you. Deeper, more honest and less tense relationships.
And it helps to heal a world gone mad.
The rabbit-hole was a dark place for me.
It was a place of ugliness and evil. Bad intentions and deception. It became possible that everything I thought I knew had been a lie.
My income source became increasingly at-odds with my integrity.
I was suddenly experiencing friction with the people around me. My dad (my best friend) and I got into door-slamming arguments. My girlfriend accused me of living in a “cloud of elitism.”
That last one stung especially when I realized she was right. I felt that I knew things everyone else didn’t know and that if they didn’t want to know them then they were choosing ignorance. I thought I was special.
The most important thing I realized was that shaking people in hopes of making them see what I saw was not helpful.
I made a mission to refine my approach. It led me to create the comedy YouTube channel JoyCamp, write poetry and perform it on stages all over the world, and befriend and learn from the activists, independent journalists and crusaders who are thriving because of their awareness and knowledge.
Over the last 15 years, I’ve become someone who is comfortable broaching any topic with any person of any persuasion at any time – because I know how to be present to the circumstances of the moment, and how to navigate accordingly.
And in 2020, I took time to identify what had changed about my approach, practically and thoroughly. Using the universal themes that emerged, I was able to put together a process that could be taught and utilized by others to better communicate their ideas. I also examined what I’d done to gain the confidence to fully show up to these intimidating moments again and again.
Then I set out to share my findings. And after working with hundreds of students now in Free Your Speech (formerly Parrhesia), I’m blown away by the results of this experiment. The transformations, relationships healed, friendships forged, artists activated and unbelievable potentials unlocked have been overwhelming.
This has become so much more than a communication course.
Communication is the lens I utilize to get you to remember how awesome you are, how awesome you could be and how much service you can provide to help others, so we can actually navigate this weird world together.
Discover how to find opportunity in every challenge, how to draw upon your talents and skills to get out of whatever rut you’re in and how to heal whatever relationship is suffering in your life.
What does your life look like when you’re representing yourself and your ideas clearly and powerfully? With Free Your Speech, you'll have the chance to find out.
I created Free Your Speech so you can...
- Heal relationships with the people you love.
- Focus your thoughts into effective speech and works of art.
- Amplify your impact.
- Be known and respected, to yourself and others.
Kayla
A great opportunity to both discover and put into practice the important tools of communication that Benny so eloquently presents. His presentations were easy to follow and inspiring.
Barbara Jo
An amazing experience for me at a totally critical time in my life - AND I MEAN CRITICAL - Benny's class helped me in so many ways. His many skills along with compassion and love for every student was truly incredible. [It] was so much more than a communication class!
Charlie
It was more of an experience than a course, an experience I am extremely grateful and blessed to have been a part of. [The course] ranged from educational, to intriguing, to fun, to, at a couple times, very therapeutic. By the end of this course you'll be finding yourself having more strong, meaningful conversations with people.
How would you have it?
- Stand up for truth by telling people what they NEED to know, so they CAN’T ignore the truth – and sever ties with friends, loved ones and people around you who don’t change their minds in short order?
- Keep silent to blend in, stay inoffensive and maintain your status quo – at the expense of being known, understood and effective with the information you know could help people?
OR
- Be clear in your own mind about your beliefs and opinions – confident and effective when you choose to share them with others and self-assured when you choose to stay silent in the moment?
When you’re 90 years old looking back on your life, which path do you think you’ll wish you’d chosen?
But how do you do it?
What is Free Your Speech?
FYS is a program that equips truth-seekers with the tools they need to be effective in their communication.
When the mainstream media seeks to portray anyone asking questions and open to alternative perspectives as dangerous, radical, misinformed and selfish, we cannot cower to persecution.
So we should complain about it and march in the streets to demand the respect we deserve?
Of course not. We’ll do what those with reason, discernment and a sense of humor must always do: grow, take the high road and prosper in spite of anything. We must, in short, become undeniable.
And I’ve spent years testing and tweaking my process to ensure people who dedicate themselves to the program, take the risk of being seen and heard and face challenges head on will experience real transformation.
Join NowHere's what you'll learn in Free Your Speech:
Know Thyself
You have everything you need to be successful in your communication, and you are the single greatest obstacle in your path. You don’t have to believe me now, just come for the ride. We’ll clean out the cobwebs of fear, suit up in an armor of self-confidence and excavate your natural gifts and abilities.
You, Supercharged
Next, we make your uniqueness into a superpower. Learn how to enhance your charisma and charm. This is how you become most captivating. Then we look at how you’ll bring all of that with you when it’s time to face—
The Difficult Conversation
Now we go into the nuts and bolts of tackling difficult subjects with the people you encounter incidentally in life as well as the friends and family you care most about. Not only will this help you as you navigate the different requirements of the present circumstance you’re facing, but you’ll become a magnet for the new people who will enhance and enrich your life moving forward.
The Masterpiece Within
Finally, we apply your powerful arsenal of tools and clarity into using your voice in new and creative ways. We go beyond conversation into the right-brain creative side of you. You cannot yet imagine the potential poetry, music, paintings, stories and other creative contributions lying dormant in you, that could soon comprise your legacy.
Take a look inside—
MODULE 1
Parrhesia: The What and the Why
Learn the concept of parrhesia and why it’s more important now than ever.
- What is parrhesia?
- Historical usage and lost meaning
- Increased significance 2020 to today
- Course overview
This module serves as an introduction to the course and inspiration to use your voice powerfully.
MODULE 2
Chains: Overcoming YOU
How to overcome the biggest obstacle on your path to successful communication. It’s not the New World Order, it’s you.
- Overcoming doubt
- The real source of fear
- Disentangling from what others may think
- Tuning your internal barometer
- Powerful mindset reframing to foster growth
- Examine and redefine failure, regret, anxiety
This week you'll gain clarity on your own limitations, fears and roadblocks as well as the tools to lay these burdens to rest.
MODULE 3
Consternation: Overcoming Stage Fright
How to overcome the fear of public speaking, which will clear the way for self-confidence in every arena. Learn to use your nerves to your advantage and recognize vulnerability as your biggest strength.
- A new approach to public speaking
- Antidotes to stage fright
- Action: your key to the life you seek
- Winning over your audience
In this module you'll become a fearless presenter. Whether you ever step onto a stage, you'll have tools that will serve you in your next encounters with individuals and groups, large or small.
MODULE 4
Charisma, Craft, Charm & Technique
How to amplify your natural proclivities and ways of being to increase your charisma and likability. Gain techniques and tactics to use your gifts to help you present ideas.
- Your uniqueness
- Strengths, skills, authentic nature
- Strengthen your intentionality
- Anger: significance, application, mastery
- Playfulness: an essential arrow in your quiver
Excavate what makes you, you. These are your biggest assets as you approach minefields in conversation. Hone your authenticity, use it on command and you become irresistible.
MODULE 5
Confidence & Confrontation: Self Construction
How to embrace confrontation. By daring to confront life, with courage, your self-confidence will increase. Also learn simple things you can do every day to always be growing into the person you want to be (and the person this world needs you to be).
- My 3 H's Framework: Helpful, Harmful, Honest
- Fall in love with confrontation; avoid conflict
- Bolster character, avoid being taken advantage of
- The keys of confrontation
- Responsibility: the bedrock of the ultra-successful
This is where you hit the existential gym and lay the foundation for unshakeable confidence and heightened vision for your own potential.
MODULE 6
Building Bridges: Tackling The Impossible Conversation
The Big One. We dig into exactly how to approach difficult conversations. I give you all the tools you need to navigate any topic with any person, by tuning into all factors at play and choosing your course of action consciously and with intention.
- Framework to resist judgment and cultivate belief in others
- The myth of winning an argument
- The deceptively simple act of listening; tools that stand up to the nuances of today's world
- The truth about opinions, ego and humility
- Controlling emotions
- Effective ways to introduce ideas
- My Conversation Virtues
- The surprising truth about facts
Believe it or not, there are ways to keep a conversation rooted in care and compassion while still being effective — but no one was ever taught them. With knowledge, you can subtly steer the ship and know when to walk away when navigating tricky terrain.
MODULE 7
Creation: The Masterpiece of Your Life
How to communicate through art. The process you can use to distill information to its essence and realize the artist inside who knows exactly what to say. The fruits of this experiment are profound and truly astonishing in quality.
- How to create a masterpiece
- How to get inspired
- What is success?
- Tapping into limitless potential
- The underutilized power of art to deliver a message
- The Exercise (it's top-secret and profoundly productive)
- Editing process that changes rough draft into masterpiece
Prepare to have your expectations exceeded exponentially in this module. I help you access a creative part of you that has been patiently waiting for you to unleash it. If you are an artist, you will love this week. If you aren't an artist... yes, you are.
MODULE 8
Your Compere
I share details of my story that I don't disclose publicly to show the ways I've used these tools to design my life. What I garnered from acting, Hollywood, "conspiracy theories" and the conference circuit.
The rabbit hole gives you the understanding you need to avoid dangerous and defeating traps; if you get stuck in the darkness, you're missing out on a world of beauty and contribution.
You're here for a reason.
Bonus Round —
When you enroll in Free Your Speech, you'll be automatically granted access to interviews not available anywhere else:
IN THE ARENA BONUS
Exclusive "In the Arena" Vault
You'll gain INSTANT access to private, uncensored conversations you won't find anywhere else except inside this program. The wisdom herein is priceless.
Guests include:
- James Corbett (Corbett Report)
- Mark Passio (What on Earth Is Happening, One Great Network)
- Richard Grove (Tragedy & Hope, Grand Theft World, Autonomy)
- Owen Benjamin ("Cancelled" former A-list comedian)
- Jay Dyer (Jay's Analysis, Esoteric Hollywood)
- Larken & Amanda Rose (The Most Dangerous Superstition, Candles in the Dark)
- TJ Marrs (You Are Law)
- Tony Myers (Trivium education)
- Ryan Christian, The Last American Vagabond
How do I get started?
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14-DAY MONEY-BACK GUARANTEE
If you aren’t completely satisfied with Free Your Speech, let me know within the first 14-days after purchase for a full refund.
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Imagine...
- Having self-confidence, self-knowledge and an arsenal of communication frameworks and techniques when faced with your next opportunity to share your perspective.
- Evaluating a moment that could get tense by figuring out what fear is driving the person you’re interacting with, assessing your own intention and knowing exactly how and to what extent you want to participate in the conversation.
- Remaining in complete control of your emotions when sharing about what matters to you most.
- Knowing you can trust yourself to express your thoughts, concerns and knowledge on any subject, without triggering or repelling those who disagree with you.
- Experiencing peace and resolution with that person in your life that you wish you didn’t have so much tension with.
- Laughing, connecting and sharing openly with the people inside this course who can relate to what you’re experiencing the most.
- Seeing the message that’s alive in you as a concrete, consumable work of art that you’ve created.
- That’s all within reach and completely possible with the right guidance and support.
They took the plunge...
And they're grateful they did!
Molly
With Benny's personal guidance I am feeling much more confident in my ability to converse and contribute during this very tricky time in human history. I find that my thoughts no longer trip over my tongue on their way out into this world!
Gemma
I signed up to learn a few communication skills for my business, and something wonderful and unexpected happened. Benny is a gifted and inspiring trainer who knows how to make his students feel gifted, inspired and loveable while speaking from their hearts.
Lon
Since leaving the course I've found myself giving expression to some of the thoughts and concerns I've had without all the fear and hesitation I would normally hold onto. It's like the words jump out of my mouth without my even expecting it.
An open letter to those who are still on the fence...
Hi, Benny here,
If you’re vacillating between, “I’m ALL in, let’s do this!” and “But am I really going to do this?” I want you to know, I actually totally get it.
When I’m facing a major change in my life, I battle feelings of uncertainty and apprehension.
You probably know, our brains are wired to PROTECT us from change. One of the absolute most powerful cheatcodes in life is knowing that we will not make a lasting, significant change until the pain of staying the same becomes greater than the very real and very persuasive fear of the unknown.
If after hearing me talk about this course or reading through this page describing it, you know in your gut that it could help you up-level, then this could be your pivot point. This could be the place that a small decision charts a course in a new and better direction. Those moments exist and the more practiced we get at recognizing and embracing them, the faster we progress.
And in my opinion progress equals happiness.
There are no silver bullets that will transform you into the person you want to (and know you can) be. But there are tools that bring you closer to your goals. If you believe that learning from Free Your Speech will bring you closer to your goals, then you don’t have much to lose.
So you can decide not to take the plunge. Or, you can join the hundreds of others who have taken a calculated chance and are now operating with more confidence, tact and self-knowledge because of it.
The choice is yours. I’m here to help.
Benny
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